12 Step Program for Freecell-aholics
Harmless diversion or pure evil? That depends. Religious
leaders and community figures worldwide are speaking out about this
scourge that is so afflicting the unwary computer users of this age,
a social problem worse than reality TV, more pernicious than the latest
potty mouth rapper, worse even than leaking breast implants. It's name?
No not freebase-- Freecell!
At first Freecell appears to be just another solitaire game, a time waster,
something to do during coffee breaks.
But sadly for many it eventually becomes something more.
Something dangerous. Something life-controlling. Something so addictive
that men have been heard to say "No, I don't feel like having sex right
now," and Freecell-distracted mothers have been witnessed to utter,
"Tell baby Jimmy to change his own d**n diaper." Clearly, somewhere
touch is lost with reality.
Beginning first with a few games per day, the unsuspecting Freecell
participant, called a "player", suddenly begins to experience a curious,
almost erotic thrill in winning several games in a row. There is even a
name for this: in Freecell circles several sequential wins are called a
As the addiction progresses, a player who is "streaking" will become
so obsessed with adding one more "win" to their streak that they
are much like the crackhead waiting for their next "hit". The player
will often sit at the computer for hours, intensely focused on the
game, at the expense of all else in their lives. They may go for
days without eating. They may develop tremendous bladder capacities,
afraid to get up from the computer lest another family member get on.
They may miss work, or worse, they may begin "playing" at work. In fact,
statistics on this social enigma suggest that the bulk of all Freecell games
are actually played while the users are at work!
An addicted Freecell player may frequently be unaware of their own increasing
addiction. Thus, family members, friends, and coworkers should familiarize
themselves with the signs of impending addiction.
At home, watch for a growing messiness in the area of the computer.
Cleanliness and personal hygiene are often the first things out the
door as the obsession begins to take hold. Also, keep an eye out
for the "paraphernalia" of the addiction, such as Freecell-related
books as shown at right.
As the addiction progresses, you may notice very dramatic mood swings.
When the addict is on a big "streak", they may seem cheery,
fleetingly affectionate, even personable (see photo at right). However,
immediately after the loss of a big "streak", the addict is plunged
into a deep abyss, a profound depression may ensue, and they may exhibit
behaviors ranging from an immediate frantic and compulsive drive to get
back on a streak, or they may attempt to damage computer equipment, or
take out frustrations on kitty or Spot. Beware the hostile post-streak
depraved Freecell addict-- they may be dangerous and unpredictable.
Here at Freecell.net, we feel it is our responsibility to inform
as well as to entertain. If you feel like you have begun to fall
prey to the addictive components of this beguiling game, please refer
to the simple steps outlined below. By following these guidelines, many
people have managed to return to society as fully functional individuals,
in some cases even able to play the occasional "social" Freecell game
without reentering the downward spiral.
And remember, at Freecell.net we're not like some big tobacco company--
we're here to inform and to help.
So with no further ado, here are the time honored Twelve Steps
that recovering Freecell
addicts everywhere have successfully used to rejoin normal society:
We admitted we were powerless over Freecell. Our lives were a mess.
Freecell was in control. "Lunch hour" Freecell at work now stretched
from 10:30AM to 3:30PM, which of course segued neatly into
"after work Freecell" beginning at 3:30PM.
We came to understand that only a higher power could help us. No
we're not talking about AOL, Microsoft, your Internet Service Provider, or
the power of the CPU in your computer. We're talking about The Big Guy.
We accepted that we must turn ourselves and our lives over to the
care of The Big Guy. Note: even if you don't believe there's
a Big Guy, you have to admit that even a non-existent Big Guy
couldn't make more of a mess of your life than you have already.
We made a rather dreadfully depressing moral inventory of ourselves,
leaving nothing out, ranging from compulsive nose-picking at the
computer to that little issue of the restraining order, filed after
the loss of that one really, really sweet huge streak. Damn that
was a great streak. But we digress..
We admitted to The Big Guy and to another human being the nature
of our problem. Be prepared for laughter and derision-- Freecell addiction
is still not widely understood by society, or seen as a disease which
of course it is.
We were entirely ready to let The Big Guy remove the defects in
our character. What the heck-- whadda ya got to lose anyhow?
We humbly asked that The Big Guy remove our shortcomings.
Frankly I think this is getting a bit repetitive-- this
could probably be condensed to a tighter, punchier Nine Step Program more
in tune with today's concentration span, don't you think?
We made a list of all the people we'd harmed. This needs to include
minor offenses such as not letting family members check email for
days on end. Doesn't seem like big stuff to you, but you gotta remember
how petty people can be.
We made direct amends all the whiners on that list we just made.
Careful when making that list in Step 8. It all comes back to bite
you here in Step 9.
We continue to take moral inventory. Yup, that's right, it's an
ongoing nuisance. You're going to have to sustain this change for
at least a few days at a time here and there if you're going to
swagger around bragging about being "cured".
We sought through prayer and meditation to improve our streaks, oops,
I meant to say we would improve our in-tuneness with The Big Guy.
We must quit thinking about streaks, must quit thinking about streaks,
must, must, must!
Having come back from the brink we now want to sustain our newfound freedom
and to help other Freecell addicts "make it back". Now this is a
tricky one. The way I see it, to help other Freecell addicts you gotta
go where the addicts are to find someone to help. And it surely can't
hurt to play just One More Game while you're there, can it?
But seriously folks, it is a pretty addictive little game. Break outta
that computer trance every once in a while and go outside, call a friend,
pick up the dishes around your computer, talk to your kid, or if things
get really desperate, do some work at your job. Whatever it takes.
It's OK to streak, but let's streak responsibly, eh?